As was announced Wednesday evening, Mrs. Lorene Stocks passed away this past week. Kerry and I were honored to participate in her funeral service. As we went to the graveside portion of the service, I noticed her husband John died in 1944—sixty-two years ago. His foot stone confirmed that he, a Marine, was one of this nation’s many World War II casualties. I cannot imagine the heartache Mrs. Stocks experienced when she lost her beloved husband in battle all those years ago. It’s one of those things I would have loved to have known before she left this life. That event would have do doubt been central in shaping who she was.
I also got to thinking that at least Mrs. Stocks didn’t have to spend one more Christmas alone. She had already spent 61 Christmases without her soul mate; at least it didn’t have to be 62.
I confidently believe that we don’t know when Jesus was born and that we don’t have the authority to celebrate Christmas as a religious holiday; the Christian’s religious holiday is Sunday, which commemorates Christ’s triumphant resurrection from the dead. However, this time of year is still special to all of us. Even if we don’t attach religious significance to the holiday, it still
brings back many wonderful family memories and sets the stage for many more to be created.
As we celebrate this special time of year, I hope that we don’t forget those among us who are hurting during the holidays. You and I live among people who have experienced great trauma and grief. Those feelings are no doubt magnified during this time of year. The strong parents who've had to endure the loss of a child are certainly wishful of just one more holiday season with their son or daughter. Those who've had to say goodbye to their beloved spouse this year long for holidays' past. Numerous children remember their late parents as they now serve as the matriarchs and patriarchs over their families’ holiday celebrations. Those adults and children affected by the cruelty of divorce long for a “normal” holiday season. Families with loved ones overseas fighting for our country are no doubt lonely during the holidays.
The list of those hurting could go on of course, but the point remains the same: suffering is the common lot of humanity. That suffering is often more “fresh” as the holiday season approaches.
If you are among those who are experiencing grief or pain because of the loss of a spouse, child, parent, or close family member, or are experiencing other difficult trials this holiday season, may we extend a thoughtful holiday wish your way. You and your family are in our continual thoughts and prayers. You can count on us as your Midway family to be there for you when you need us—no matter the time of year.
James’ words from chapter 1, verse 26 are profoundly important as we think about these sobering thoughts, “Religion that is pure and undefiled before God, the Father, is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained from the world.”
May we never forget those hurting among us.
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